Parenting

In this fast paced modern life, time seems to be the costliest commodity!

In a nuclear family  or for that matter even in larger families parents are very busy as most couples are working professionals. Hence parents and their children are spending less time interacting with each other. As a result, many children are getting less personal love and attention than they deserve. 

World  Demographics reported that  parents today spend roughly 40 percent less time with their children than did parents a generation ago. It seems to be the influence of the western culture even in Indian families !

Moreover, it has been observed that many parents of our school think/believe that spending academic time with their children  is not required as we follow the play way methodology and therefore no monitoring is required of their  work. On the other hand at primary level as we do not have text books it is all the more necessary to overview their learning as the method encourages optimal self learning under minimal guidance.

To help families stay connected, below is a list of helpful family time tips. Keep in mind that both quantity and quality time is important when choosing activities. So build happy memories around and exciting events by keeping your family time creative and enjoyable.

1.   Eat together & listen to each other:

Most children today don't know the meaning of a family dinnertime. Yet the communication and unity built during this set-ting is integral to a healthy family life. Sharing a meal together allows the opportunity to talk about each other's lives. This is a time for parents to listen, as well as to give advice and encouragement.

Attentive listening conveys a message that a person is really interested in another. It also imparts a sense of worth and helps develop trust. Therefore, listening is a critical link in successful parenting.

2.   Read often

It's important for parents to read to their children. The latest research indicates that reading to your children cultivates an interest for knowledge and stimulates language development. It also increases their attention spans and helps them become more curious. Look for books that your child would enjoy reading.

After reading, ask questions about the content.

3. Do chores together

Part of what goes on in the home is the development of teamwork. Functional family life depends on the contribution of everyone. Assigning chores is the most productive way of teaching responsibility and accountability to your children. Doing chores with your child will help foster good communication skills.

4. Help with schoolwork

A great way to spend quality time with children and light a fire of learning is to help children with their schoolwork. A parent's eagerness to help will cause a child to become more interested in school thus improving his or her grades. Regular trips to the library for school projects are an inexpensive and enjoyable way to spend time with children. Helping should begin with an understanding that children are responsible for homework.

 Parents are there to help their child get organized and to encourage them when they get stuck.

5. Start a hobby or project

Choose a fun activity that your child is interested in. Activities like cooking, arts, crafts, puzzles or riding bicycle will make great hobbies that can open the door to exciting family time. Once a child learns a new  recipe or is able to cast a lure accurately, let him or her take the lead with your supervision.

6. Play games

New technology has made video games more prevalent. As a result, many children are spending long hours in front of the TV or playing computer games. Parents should find creative ways to spark an interest in family-oriented contests such as board games or card games. This will give parents additional time to talk and nurture their relationship.

7. Plan a family outing

Sometimes getting out of the house is important. Hop in the family car/ bus and go for a drive.

Prepare a picnic lunch and visit a local park. Take time to play catch or ride a bike. A stroll in the garden will help parents interact with their children. Also, a visit to the zoo or museum will spark a child's enthusiasm and enjoy in lap of nature.

8. Encourage athletic activities

It is vital for children to exercise. Sports not only strengthen the body, but also build character and determination.

Whether it's a father bowling to a son or a mother and daughter walking, finding time for athletic events is important for a child's emotional and physical development. This is a great opportunity for a family to interact.

9. Create a Family Time calendar

Since many parents have hectic schedules, time with children often becomes a low priority whether intended or not. Post a calendar on the refrigerator and have parents and children pencil in special events. Knowing when you're going to meet may also help you think of creative activities. Commit to keeping this schedule free from interruptions.

10. Pray together & attend a house of worship

Nothing is more special than taking a few minutes each day to pray with a child before bedtime. By explaining the purpose behind prayer, children will learn the importance of faith as the foundation for the family. Also, encourage and allow the child to participate in religious functions and give their importance.

Courtesy : SAIS